Enye yezinto zokuzilibazisa ezicebisa kakhulu nezishukumisayo ukuhamba. Ungazi izindawo ezintsha, amasiko amasha nemibono emisha ngempilo.
Yize ukuhamba wedwa kungaba wumqondo ohehayo ngoba kuyakhuthaza, kuyashukumisa futhi kunomvuzo, ukuhamba njengabantu abashadile kukunikeza amathuba amaningi okuqinisa izibopho zothando, ukwazana kakhulu futhi kukunikeze nombono wokuthi impilo ndawonye iyoba njani.
Uma ungakhethi, lapha sikunikeza izizathu eziyi-18 zokuthi kungani uhambo njengombhangqwana kuyinto okufanele uzame okungenani kanye empilweni yakho.
1. Qinisa ubuhlobo bakho
Kujwayelekile ukuthi ngesikhathi sohambo izinselelo, amava kanye nezithiyo ezingahle zivele kungavela. Lapho lezi zibhekene njengezithandani, ukuxhumana okuqina kakhulu nokumelana kakhulu kungathuthukiswa kunalokho okwenziwa kweminye imisebenzi yansuku zonke njengokuya kumamuvi noma ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa.
Akukhathalekile ukuthi ukhuphuka iKilimanjaro noma i-gondola eVenice, uma nenza le misebenzi njengabashadikazi nizothola indawo efanelekile yokuthi ubudlelwano bukhule buqine. Ibuye ikuvumele ukuthi ubone esinye isici salowo muntu omthandayo.
2. Kushibhile
Ngokuhamba wedwa, uzithwala zonke izindleko zohambo. Uma nihamba njengombhangqwana, ngaphandle kokwabelana ngesipiliyoni, futhi nabelana ngezindleko ezihlobene nendawo yokuhlala, ezokuhamba, ukudla neminye imisebenzi.
3. Gqamisa umlingiswa weqiniso womlingani wakho
Ukuhamba ndawonye kungenye indlela enhle kakhulu yokwazi noma okungenani ukubona uhlamvu lomlingani wakho.
Ngesikhathi sohambo kujwayelekile ukuthi kube nezikhathi zengcindezi ezisiphoqa ukuba sishiye indawo yethu yokunethezeka futhi sibhekane nezimo esingazijwayele empilweni yethu yansuku zonke. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubheke ukusabela umlingani wakho anakho kulezi zimo. Ungathola futhi nezimpawu zobuntu babo obungazazi okwamanje, zombili ezinhle nezimbi.
4. Kwabiwa izinqumo
Uma uhamba nomuntu, awunasibopho sokwenza zonke izinqumo, ungazivumela ukuthi uyeke ukulawula kancane, uphumule futhi ujabulele uhambo.
Leli yiphuzu elibalulekile, ngoba lapho uthatha izinqumo, uzoba nombono womunye umuntu okungenzeka ukuthi unombono ohlukile kowakho, lokhu kukhulisa amathuba okwenza izinqumo ezifanele.
5. Okuhlangenwe nakho okusha ndawonye
Ngesikhathi sohambo akunakugwenywa ukuba nokuhlangenwe nakho okungajwayelekile. Ukuzama isidlo esiyingqayizivele, ukulinga ukugxuma ebenji noma ukungena emanzini ajulile kuyisampula nje yalokho ongakuthola ohambweni. Ngokwenza lokhu njengezithandani, ubudlelwano buzoqiniswa futhi ukuxhumana okuqinile kuzokwakhiwa phakathi kwenu.
6. Ufunda ukwethemba omunye umuntu
Ngesikhathi sohambo njengombhangqwana kubalulekile ukuthi kuthuthukiswe isibopho sokwethembana phakathi kwabo bobabili, nakanjani kumele basebenze njengeqembu ukuze uhambo lube yinto emnandi.
7. Ungathola izinto ezimangazayo
Awusoze wamazi umuntu ngokuphelele. Imibhangqwana nayo iyahlukile. Yingakho ngokuhamba ndawonye, nizoba nethuba lokwenza okutholakele okuthokozisayo nokujabulisayo ngomlingani wakho.
Mhlawumbe ikhono ongalazi, njengokukhuluma ulimi noma ikhono lezemidlalo, lizokwenza umbono wakho nombono wakho ngomlingani wakho uvuseleleke.
8. Isizungu
Akunakugwenywa ukuba nezikhathi ezithile zokuzilibazisa. Uma uhamba wedwa, uvamise ukuzibandakanya ngokufunda incwadi, ulalele umculo noma udlale umdlalo wevidiyo.
Ehambisana, lezo zikhathi zijabulisa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma kungumlingani wakho. Ngisho kulezo zikhathi ezincane bangaba nezingxoxo ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi bazane ngokwengeziwe.
9. Okunye okuhlangenwe nakho kohambo kuba ngcono uma kwabiwa
Ukucabanga ngokushona kwelanga usesiqongweni seNtaba iRoraima, uzibona ubonakala eSalar de Uyuní noma ucabanga ngoMona Lisa eLouvre, ngokungangabazeki yinto ehlukile.
Kodwa-ke, lapho wabelana nabo ngalowo okhethekile, baba nenjongo kakhulu futhi bathinte imizwa.
10. Unomuntu ozokuxhasa
Uma uhamba wedwa, ngeke ulahlekelwe umbono wobhakha wakho nemithwalo. Lokhu kuba kungakhululeki ezimweni ezithile, njengalapho uya endlini yangasese noma uma usebhishi futhi ufuna ukulala kancane.
Uma nihamba njengombhangqwana, ngeke nihlupheke kulokhu kungakhululeki, ngamunye uyazi ngomunye nempahla yakhe.
11. Ikuvumela ukuthi uthole umbono wesitayela sabo sokulungiselela
Ngokwenza imisebenzi ecacisiwe ekuhleleni uhambo, ungathola umbono wokuthi benza kanjani futhi babhekane nomsebenzi othile obalulekile ebudlelwaneni.
Uma iqiniso lokuhlela iholide njengezithandani lanele ukumcasula (noma) noma ukumenza ahluleke ukulawula, ungathola umbono wokuthi kuzoba njani ukuhlela impilo yenu ndawonye, noma ngisho nangaphezulu, umshado wakho ongaba khona.
12. Izithombe ezinhle
Lapho behamba ndawonye, bangathatha izithombe ezinhle nezihlanyayo ezizobakhumbuza izikhathi ababehlala kuzo, futhi bangazithumela nakuma-social network futhi babelane ngenjabulo nabathintana nabo.
13. Khuluma ngezihloko ezibalulekile
Ingabe kukhona okuthile obulokhu ufuna ukumbuza kona? Kuhle-ke lesi yisikhathi.
Ngesikhathi sohambo kunezikhathi zokusondelana ezibolekisa ezingxoxweni ngezihloko ezijulile nezizwakalayo.
Ukuhamba ngezimoto ezinde noma ukuhamba kungaba yisikhathi esihle sokubhekana nezinkinga ezibalulekile. Buza ukuthi ufisa ini empilweni, ukuthi ubukeka kanjani eminyakeni embalwa noma umane mayelana nobuntwana bakhe nokuphila komndeni.
Ungaphuthelwa yileli thuba lokumazi kangcono.
14. Uzoba nomuntu ozokumamatheka futhi akusekele ezikhathini ezinzima
Ngesikhathi sohambo, kuvamile nezehlakalo ezingalindelekile noma isehlakalo esingalindelekile njengokulahlekelwa indiza noma ukubhukha okuhlulekile.
Uma uzithola usesimweni esingemnandi, uzoba nomuntu ozokuthwesa umthwalo ongokomzwelo futhi angahle akwenze uhlekise ngezinye zalezo zikhathi ezibucayi othambekele kuzo kunoma iluphi uhambo.
15. Uzobe udala izinkumbulo ezingenakulibaleka
Enye yezinto ezuzisa kakhulu ngohambo izinkumbulo ezisele, ikakhulu uma lolo hambo lunomuntu okhethekile.
Uma behamba ndawonye, bakha inqwaba yezinkumbulo, izindaba kanye nezindatshana ezizosiza ngokuzayo ukuvusa lelo thuba ababelana ngalo futhi ngokungangabazeki elizobenza bamamatheke.
16. Kwezothando
Ukuhamba ndawonye kuzuza umklomelo njengenye yezinto zothando ongazihlela nomlingani wakho.
Ngesikhathi sohambo njengezithandani, bazohlangabezana nezikhathi ezihlukile ezengeza impela umthamo wothando ebudlelwaneni. Ukucabanga ngokushona kwelanga ebhishi, ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa endaweni yokudlela enhle yase-Italiya noma ukuhamba ngomgwaqo we-Inca yizinto ezingadala umoya okhuthazayo wezothando okhulisa bonke ubudlelwano.
17. Thuthukisa ukusondelana
Ubuwazi ukuthi imibhangqwana ehamba ndawonye inempilo engcono yocansi kunaleyo engayi?
Yebo, lokhu kuliqiniso elifakazelwe. Mhlawumbe kususelwa eqinisweni lokuthi lapho uhamba nalowo muntu okhethekile nabelana ngezikhathi eziningi ezimnandi futhi niyaqondana kuze kufike ezingeni lokuthi niba nokuvinjelwa kwezinye izindawo, njengokusondelana.
18. Ikhaya yilapho inhliziyo ihlala khona
Enye yemibi yokuzihambela wedwa ukuthi kuhlale kufika isikhathi lapho uzizwa ukhishwa inyumbazane, uwedwa futhi ungaphelelwa yithemba ugcine uphuthelwe yimvelo yasekhaya lakho.
Lapho nihamba njengabantu abathandanayo lokhu akwenzeki, ngoba lowo muntu okhethekile ohamba nawe ukunikeza lowo muzwa wokujwayeleka nenduduzo oyizwayo lapho usekhaya, ngakho-ke uyohlala uzizwa ukuthi usekhaya, noma ngabe bakuphi.
Ngakho-ke nazi izinzuzo eziningi ongazithola lapho uhamba njengezithandani. Kuyi-adventure ukuthi akufanele uyeke ukuphila.
Kuzame bese usitshela isipiliyoni sakho.
